Young Minds in Constant Conflicts

Priorities in Life are: 1. Family
                               2. Career
                               3. Love-Hate Relationship
                               4. Friends
                               5. Money

They often land up Prioritizing as : 1. Money or Love/Hate Relationship
                                                    2. Friends
                                                    3. Family
                                                    4. Career

They think they know it all but still want to know more..
They don't want to go by other's decisions but still can't decide for themselves...
They feel tired of being labelled as kids but don't want to grow up  :p
They will teach you a lesson right when you start preaching them...

We all know Youth is often characterized by or rather criticized for Impulsiveness, Over Enthusiasm or Excitement and Demanding Freedom

All we still want is them to understand and become Calm, Patient, Tolerant, Responsible and Self-Sufficient.

Don't Blame it on Nature because its WE who Nurture

Somethings never change as they are labelled inborn insane.
If nature has its owm rules who are we to choose.

'Survival of the fittest" a phrase often misused. Let me explain...
Darwin never meant here " the one who is physically fit and sound will survive rather he meant the one who will adapt to a local environment or survive will fit in" hence its a metaphor not a scientific explanation to the evolutionary theory.

So don't blame it all on nature as it is a gift accept it. It will grow and give fruits if you are able to nurture it the right way.

Responsible Adults can only sow the seed for a Responsible Future of the Next generation and Generations to come.

Also Don't Forget: Nurture but Let it Grow Naturally... Patience and Endurance give best results!

Irony as I see it..

Young boys and girls are becoming carefree and selfish in love after knowing how not to be careless in love!

Carelessness is often used to describe a behavior which is impulsive ,  an error one commits forgetfully or skips.

I have often found teachers and parents emphasizing on 'Careless Mistakes'. Consider a mother saying 'He is too smart but often makes Careless Mistakes or a teacher saying 'Don't Make Careless Mistakes this time'.

But if he/she would have been that smart why would he/she make careless mistakes.

Careless Mistakes in exams may cause some deduction in marks more than that makes one embarrassed at times.

But have you in such a situation found yourself  getting away in an easy way with your carelessness or careless mistakes.

Are careless mistakes more easy to forgive than being selfish and carefree. If yes, then why not face the real embarrassment of committing such errors but face the consequences because these 'Careless Mistakes do teach us some lessons.

Sometimes I feel not knowing everything is better than knowing too much too early as some one wise said it "Ignorance is Bliss'!

Lets not leave our innocence so soon.

You may get careless in your exams but you still can't afford to be careless in relationships coz relationships are a matter of great responsibilities. Your one careless mistake can give you or someone else a life long pain.

Being Selfish and Carefree are even worst traits to keep in your personalities. They make you self-centered and lonely discard them for lifelong friendships and ever lasting relationships.

So vouch for it my young buddies!

All I mean to say here behind closed doors maintaining your privacy is:

Handle your relationships and life carefully!